Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts

Sunday, December 31, 2017

...And That's a Wrap

This year finished up with the sale of our Morning Vista house, which closed and recorded on December 29th, 2017. With the entire year revolving around buying/selling/moving/renovating, it is nothing short of miraculous that, after almost eight months, the house is finally off the market. That chapter is closed. Relieved doesn't begin to describe how we feel. When we bought the Sunnyside house, Dylan recognized that, while it was exciting, the more exciting real estate transaction would be the sale of Morning Vista. I agreed with him 100%. We are so grateful to be ending 2017 on this note. We've spent over eight years at Morning Vista, and the story of that life journey is one to stand alone for when we actually move. (Right now we are leasing the house back from the buyers until the end of January.) For this post, I'll just stick to the year in review.

Here we are toasting to the closing of our house!

While I would never recommend being involved in two real estate transactions, moving and renovating during the holiday season while shuffling all the duties of regular life, I would do it all over again to get here. I don't deal well with being busy...I am so run-down right now. I caught the virus that everyone else seems to have, including my kids, and it has knocked me flat on my butt since Wednesday. Could this be the actual flu? I can't remember something that has made me feel so awful from head to toe for such a long time. But it has also forced me to slow down and take a breath, and it has made me a million times grateful for our eventless New Year's weekend.

If I had to sum up the year in short, it would be The Year of Finding Hope. I can remember a time, just less than a decade ago, where I was showing up to work every day at a job that I hated. Like, I hated it. I would cry before I had to go to work. (I'm not even a crier!) I had student loans to pay off, and I was making a decent paycheck in a crashing economy, so I really had no options. At that time, I was hopeless. I was miserable, and everybody knew it. (Not the finest time of my life.) I would drive home and think about how completely and utterly stuck I was. I had a lot of growing up to do back then. I didn't know about letting go of things that I had no control over and valuing things that are actually important in life. I made it worse for myself, but I didn't know any better.

Of course, things changed and improved. Life evolved, as it tends to do. And then a few years later, I found myself with a tiny baby and was totally swallowed up by new motherhood. Not really in a good way. I was an anxious mess, and the baby was, too. He cried a lot. Dylan traveled a lot. Like, A LOT. He flew charter, and he'd have to leave on long trips with no notice. We couldn't make plans to do anything, ever. I almost came unglued. I think I'll always be a little mentally and emotionally fragile from that. I still have issues relaxing. During that time, I was hopeless. Like before, I would drive home with a crying baby and think to myself that I was completely stuck. Everything was so, so hard, and I had no hope that it would ever change.

But...the baby got a little older, and Dylan's job slowed down. Eventually he got a new job that was 85% more family-friendly. Things were so much better. Then, 2017 rolled along, and I knew it had come time to close out our chapter on the outskirts of town and rejoin civilization. We cleaned up and fixed up the house and then listed it. We spent every second shopping real estate on the MLS. It consumed everything we had, and we endured a lot of disappointment. 

Like the other times, I had no reason to hope that things would work out for us. Time kept passing, we kept lowering the list price, and we still weren't getting much action. The difference this time was that I held out hope anyway. I had my weak moments, but I did my best to let go of control and give it all over to God. I made a decision to trust in His timing. It was the only thing I could do, really. By the end of the year, all the good stuff started to happen. Things came together in ways I never could have imagined possible. This journey was the biggest test of patience and the most impactful time of personal growth that I've ever known. It took a long time, and it wasn't easy, but I am forever grateful for the lessons that this year has taught me and for the way it has all unfolded.

2017 was a year of trials and miracles. Nobody is the same person that they were a year ago, but I'm substantially different than the Lu of 2016. (Better, in my opinion.) Parts of the last year were really hard. Not tragic or awful, but hard. And here we are thriving and stronger than ever. Unlike during those other hard times of life, I am not coming out on the other side of this feeling rattled and angry and lost. I am hopeful, grateful and trusting, and my focus has been readjusted so that I now put energy toward the things people in life that really matter. It's a better way to live, and as I recognize how much good has come from this past year, it also makes me realize how much more I have to learn during my time as a person living here on earth.

And with that, I'd say that with the closing of the year and the closing of our house out in the boonies, that this is a most appropriate time to say good-bye to the blog, Boondocks Boulevard. I've been writing about all things real estate over in another space for some time, and I've been working my tail off the last few days to get the new blog reveal-ready. It's not quite there yet...but I'm sharing it with you anyway while it's still under construction. Bear with me while I get the pieces of it together. I thought about keeping separate blogs for the house renovation and for my family, but I'm not going to do that. If you're interested in one thing but not the other, I guess you'll have to do your own filtering or maybe find a new family blog to call home. As much as I love to hear about people reading my blog, I'm not so short-sighted that I fail to recognize it for what it is...a passion project that is really all about me. As such, I'll do what I want and tailor it how I see fit as it progresses. I hope you like it, but if you don't, I love you anyway!!!

So please, join me over at hello, Sunnyside. It has a long, complicated web address for now, but in a few weeks, it'll be hellosunnyside.com. I bought the domain name at GoDaddy, and they have a waiting period before you can transfer it to another host...so, just bookmark the site for a couple of weeks, if you care to follow. In fact, I'm pretty far behind in updating the content there, but I'll try to get on that this week. I will scale down the number of photos of my kids, but you'll still see them there, for sure.

I truly hope that everybody reading this right now is wrapping up 2017 by thinking about events from the past year that made them smile. From a worldview stance, it wasn't a great year. I know we can all do better as humans and make this planet a better place to be. I think a good start at that would be to seek gratitude and to be kind to one another. I haven't had the mental space to think about resolutions for 2018, but I'll start with those. Happy New Year!

Sunday, December 17, 2017

Happy and Exhausted

My brain power is minimal, my body is weak and my wrinkles are deep. But, we are all smiling over here. We had Dylan home this week...the only week this month with him at home. He was swamped with things for work, and we were like ships passing in the night. Luckily we got out together for a Christmas party last night, otherwise we might have forgotten what each other looked like.

In the meantime, I've kept busy packing boxes and making trips to the new house with a car load of stuff every single day. I've almost filled an entire car bay in the garage, and there's still so much left to do! I've exchanged dozens of emails between the contractor and designer and the doors/window guy, and we all spent most of the day together on Friday making plans at the house and shopping for things like light fixtures and slabs of stone. I've hit up the floor store and the paint store on my own, and the contractor and designer have a plan together with the cabinet people. Things should start happening soon! I'm working on a blog where I'll just post about renovation details so we can keep this space about the usual family stuff. In the meantime, follow me (@hello_sunnyside) on Instagram if you care at all about the goings-on with the house.

A round of backyard golf for D and Brian for practice. Photo from the lookout deck on top of the casita. Come and play some time!

Pool fence coming soon!

A random Monday night swim class.


Winter Wonderland for the third year in a row. We love it!

Brrrrr, it's snowing.




Practicing for his birthday!

While I've been doing that, Dylan's been making arrangements for repairs on the Morning Vista house in preparation to unload it! He also had two training programs and a volunteer event for work. So, he figured that now was as good a time as any to have Brian fly in from LA for a couple of nights and play a round of golf at the TPC. The boys had a blast with Uncle Brian, and we all enjoyed his homemade pasta!

We did two swim lessons to make up for missing a lesson last week when G was sick. I've worked my usual schedule, and we went to Winter Wonderland on Monday night to see the lights. On Thursday night, I went to a "Favorite Things" Christmas party with some of the other moms from Gavin's school. Saturday morning was Elaine's cookie party, so the two Gs helped me bake a double batch of eggnog cookies so that we could have some extras to give away to teachers and friends. And Saturday night was the company Christmas party...for both of us. But we stuck with Dylan's work crowd because, well, that's what we wanted to do. We started at Morton's and ended at Pattie's, and the boys hung with my parents.

Dylan took on all three boys by himself on Thursday night after Shawn got a last minute trip so that Elaine could go to the girls' party. The boys loved having Luke at the house. Super Dad!

Megan's "Favorite Things" party

Aly, Elaine and me

On Friday morning, my mom took the boys to the park to celebrate Graham's birthday with donuts. Kristin and Pierce met up for the fun, too! D was working, and I was at the new house all day getting some plans in place, but they had so much fun and even got up close and personal with a garbage truck!

Waffles at home for the birthday boy!

Singing to the birthday boy at 6am!

The garbage truck driver let the boys take turns getting in the truck.

Cousins!





Birthday boy!

Opening gifts with Nonna and Papa.

Birthday party with cousins at night! This photo makes me laugh every time.

We love our birthday boy!



He loves Elmo and Mickey Mouse!

No shortage of people to assist in unwrapping presents.

The racetrack that Guinea got him is already getting a lot of traffic.

All decked out at the cookie party with his school friends.

Elaine had these little tables set up for the kids to decorate cookies while we did a cookie exchange and had lunch. So fun!


Thanks for a fun morning, E!

Leaving the boys with my parents to go to the McD party.


Working hard on crafts with Nonna

Throwing a fit for Nonna because he didn't want to wear his crafting apron.

The biggest thing of all this week...GRAHAM turned 2!! Our incredibly feisty, full-of-life, little lovable, smiley, tantrum-throwing yet sweet boy isn't a baby at all anymore. He's talking in 4-word sentences and singing and making his brother (and all of us) laugh every single day. He hardly ever walks because he runs to just about everywhere. He is loved at daycare, and he is such a delight to everyone he encounters. He keeps me on my toes every second. Goodness gracious, Graham brings such a special dynamic to our family. He says "I love you, Mommy" without being prompted and gives great, big kisses every day. Seeing the special relationship unfold between Gavin and Graham has been my greatest joy. My heart bursts when I think about Graham and his great, big grin. His birthday really deserves a special post on its own, but that won't happen this week. I promise to do an "All About Graham" once we get through the end of the year. To celebrate his birthday, we had family over to our house on Friday night for pizza, cake and gifts. It was the perfect celebration for our big 2-year-old.

I'm exhausted just re-capping the week. I've never gotten so little sleep, besides of course when the babies were small. I'm not ready to start the grind. Dylan will be gone all week, and I feel like Christmas has really gotten away from us. My hope is to drive around with the boys to see Christmas lights some night this week, since we haven't fit that in yet. It's my favorite Christmas-time activity. I have a room full of gifts that have yet to be wrapped, and a bunch of grocery shopping to do for the festivities ahead. I cannot wait for Christmas morning, when I can lay around in my pajamas and take a day off from packing and doing all things house-related. In the meantime, though, gratefulness abounds, and we are busy but feeling blessed beyond measure. Merry Christmas!

Wednesday, December 6, 2017

Welcome to Sunnyside

Well, this has been a long time coming. We closed yesterday on our new home...a major milestone in this journey that has consumed most of 2017. We had to call in a LOT of miracles to bring this to fruition, and our work is not done. But let me back up and start at the beginning.

Since the summer, I had been locked in on a house in McCormick Ranch. It had a big, finished basement, which gave it some more square footage compared to other homes in the area. I think we can all agree that McCormick Ranch is the best location in town. We visited it a bunch of times. I was ready to put in an offer...but I was kind of ready to put in an offer on anything that would get this ball rolling. Dylan was hesitant but he played along to keep me happy.

And then, all of a sudden, the house of our dreams appeared on the MLS in early October. And by "house of our dreams," I meant that it checked off all the major boxes: good location (2nd best in my opinion!- 96th and Cactus), large lot, no HOA, decent floor plan, swimming pool, 3-car garage, and the cherry on top...a guest house. It even had a few putting greens for Dylan. The backyard is perfect for a party. It's a very typical 1980s Scottsdale home which could stand to be re-stuccoed and painted...I won't pretend that it's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen BUT it is the most beautiful thing to us because it is perfect.

We looked at the house at 11am the day after it went on the market. Dylan was excited about it and totally on board. He has balanced me out so good throughout this whole process. While I was quick to see every house as "perfect" for us, he held out faith that our actual perfect house was out there and continued with steadfast patience in that belief for months and months. I was convinced that perfection was unattainable, and I didn't really care. (Now, obviously, I'm glad that we didn't jump the gun on anything else we looked at in the last few months.) Anyway, the fact that he was excited about the house made the whole thing seem really fantastic.

We left the house that morning and decided we'd make an offer. We went to show pictures of it to my parents about two hours later, and when we pulled up the listing, the status had already changed to "pending." A cash offer at full asking price had already come in and been accepted. We've looked high and low for the better part of a year at almost every house in Scottsdale that has come on the market, and we've never seen anything like that happen. So, we put in our not-as-great back-up offer and just got on with our lives because what could we do?

The phone rang a couple weeks later. The deal had fallen through, and a few days after that, we received a counter offer from the seller. We accepted the counter offer and got ourselves involved in a deal that would involve so many hoops to jump through that my head started to spin from the get-go.



The most gigantic headache of all time was the solar panel lease. I won't pretend like I did any of the legwork in finding a way around this massive problem. It was all D. But I was all stressed out about it. Leasing solar panels is a terrible decision. It makes no financial sense. In fact it's financially detrimental. The house has a monstrous solar panel system, which is great because we are all about reducing our carbon footprint. But we'd be taking over the solar lease that would have us paying monthly double what our regular electrical bill would be by the end of the term. A term that lasts 25 years! Holy smokes.

Well, Dylan did his homework. Buying out the panels was not an option. I won't even give you the number for the pay-off, but it was a stupid. Especially considering that the efficiency of solar panels deteriorates over time, and they probably wouldn't even function in 25 years. The number to pre-pay the remainder of the lease was still stupid, but about half as much as buying the panels. And with the lease, the company guarantees the efficiency of the panels for the life of the term. We had some tough negotiations with the seller, and he gave us a slight reduction on the purchase price. With all things considered, we determined that paying off the lease would be like pre-paying our electrical bill for the next 21+ years. While it's never financially savvy to pay off something two decades in advance with no interest to be collected, we kept in mind that this was an investment in our family...not just a financial investment. We justified it enough in our heads to be okay with it. If you're ever looking at a house with leased solar panels, I'd recommend finding out what the seller has in mind as far as paying off the lease before you get too far into the deal.

Next hurdle...the inspection report was disastrous. At some point, the trusses in the attic had been cut, which caused other trusses to buckle. Repairs would involve a structural engineer. And that was just one of the items from the inspection. I won't get into the rest because it's boring. But it was going to involve a lot of money. After the inspection came back, the seller wanted to sell the house "as-is" for a reduction in the purchase price. But, the price was not low enough for us to take on all the repairs and the solar panel lease. We had to kill the deal. So, we signed the papers and just hoped that maybe he would come around again in a month or so with a more reasonable deal that would make it financially feasible for us to buy the house. (Assuming nobody else bought the house first.)

I went on a jog that morning after signing the deal-killing papers and got all in my head about it, and then I decided that I was done. Just totally done with it all. I knew I wanted to move, and I knew it was the right thing for us. But at that point, our house had been on the market for almost six months. I had poured so much energy and attention into getting this place sold and finding a new house, and I was exhausted. I thought we were due for a win, but since we weren't going to get that, I decided to give myself a break. I wasn't going to take moving completely off the table, but I wanted the idea of it out of my life for a few months. I had been driving myself crazy by keeping everything in its perfect place in this house at all times in preparation for any potential showings, and it had all been for nothing. Just to take that off the table would free up so much time in my day and bring down my frustration factor by 10-fold, and I was ready for the break. I mean, it is maddening to make beds and fluff pillows and chase people with paper towels wiping up at least 100 messes every day. It had gone on too long, and I was ready to wave the white flag.

But I guess the deadline to kill the deal wasn't for another day, and the paperwork didn't get officially submitted. The seller came back around and took a little bit more off the purchase price as a final offer the next morning...which was also my 36th birthday. It wasn't really enough money to cover the expenses involved in buying the house. Not even close. But, for some reason, I suddenly knew in my heart without a doubt that we should accept and move forward with the purchase. Dylan agreed. When we thought about it, we were hoping to get a lot more money from the seller to cover the repairs and solar lease, but it was an amount of money that, in the long run, probably wouldn't make a huge difference. We knew we'd be pissed if we let this house get away from us. So, the deal was active again!

We had crossed the biggest hurdle, but the story wasn't over yet. The seller had a ton of stuff stashed in the attic and guest house, and he was hoping to auction it all. However, he couldn't get an auctioneer until after our close date, so our closing was extended by two weeks. This was fine with us because the longer it took for us to close, the less time we'd be floating two mortgages. Then we hit a roadblock with our financing when our rate was a half point higher than we thought we could get elsewhere. We ultimately met halfway and solved that problem, which was the right thing to do. How awful it would have been to blow up the deal because our financing didn't come through in time after switching mortgage brokers.

After that debacle, the lender learned about the new, later closing date. Apparently the rate was only locked in until shortly after the original closing date. We got that figured out when the seller agreed to cover the costs to extend the rate lock, and after that it was full steam ahead on the deal.

By the end of the first week in November, we were 30 days from close. At this point, it was time for us to put a plan in place for getting work done on the house. Not only would the house require structural repairs, but we were hoping to spruce things up a bit, too. We wanted to re-do the floors and paint, at minimum. But also, the kitchen and bathrooms needed updating, and the fireplace could stand to be refinished. The front door and windows were original to the house and needed to be replaced, and a fresh set of interior door hardware (and light fixtures, and fans, and the list goes on and on) would help things a lot, too. We were also hoping to add a pantry (something the house currently doesn't have) and possibly add on to the master suite since the closet space was very, very small. We knew that we wouldn't have room in the budget to get everything done, so it would be all about planning and prioritizing. Right now, we're hammering out the final details, and the project should start soon. Stay tuned to where you can follow along on that. I won't burden you with posting every step of the renovation on this blog because, for a lot of people who read this, that will be pretty boring, I'm sure. But if you like HGTV and design blogs, well maybe you'll add my secondary blog to your reading list.

It's a busy time of year for us and everyone, but even still, I am happy to be taking on this project. All of the projects of the last decade have involved so much adulting- starting a career, getting married, growing babies in my body and then parenting them. All of which, of course, are wonderful things. I've been blessed in a million different ways. However, I haven't really had the opportunity to immerse myself in a personal project that really excites me in a unique way. While the renovations will most definitely involve my family, most of the ideas for it will be from me, and most of the decisions about the finishes will likely be mine. I'm sure I'll get stressed and frustrated at times...but nothing worth doing is every easy, right? I am so ready for this.

The theme for most of 2017 has been "moving." And, for the most part, it's been incredibly frustrating. So, as a side theme, we've also added "personal growth" to describe the past year. It's been a journey, for sure, but one that will hopefully be wrapping up soon. Dylan and I have both come a long, long way since the beginning of last year. Through disappointment and patience and all the highs and lows, we've grown in so many ways. For me, I know that I've become a lot more resilient, grateful, patient, trusting in the plans for my life that aren't up to me, and I've been able to let go of control in the areas that really are out of my control. I can see the good, even during bad times. Really, I've opened myself up to a whole new world, and I couldn't be more glad about it. It was worth every second of frustration. While some families are forced to endure unfathomable pain and overcome unthinkable hardship, I can only be grateful that a comparably small challenge has brought so much good to my life.

And with that, I'd just like to call in one more miracle. While we're grateful for the timing of different factors unfolding in our situation for a variety of reasons, we still have one little detail up in the air. Morning Vista has not officially sold. It is so nice to be rooted in our home of eight years for the holiday season and to be able to transition slowly to our new house on Sunnyside. We could have found ourselves in a short-term rental with all our stuff in storage or bunking up with my parents for a couple months had things turned out differently. Obviously, it has been nicer to stay home and to move our things all on our own over a long period of time. (Luckily we have a garage and casita to store it all until construction is complete!) Things are moving in the right direction to get Morning Vista officially sold. But everyone knows that until the keys actually change hands, we cannot count on any real estate deal to come through. Like I already said, we've been the blessed recipients of many miracles, some of which were not even revealed in this blog post, and we wouldn't have gotten the new house without everything falling into place at the right time. Once Morning Vista is sold, though, we'll really be able to breathe in a deep sigh of relief and close this chapter. It will be a good, good day.

Honestly, though, the way that everything has come together so far has been living proof that we must trust in God's timing of things. For that reason, I really haven't obsessed with worry about selling Morning Vista. It's a serious situation and one that could result in some hardship if things don't pan out pretty quickly. But, it's out of my control. I just really trust that this piece of the puzzle is all part of the plan. It took a long, long time, but it resulted in a lot of personal growth and an ultimate payoff that will be well worth the the struggle, uncertainty and frustration. The house on Sunnyside will turn out to be an immeasurable blessing to our family, and to pay that forward we hope to open our doors to family, friends and neighbors as much as possible. Nothing is more life-giving than spending time with the good people in our lives, and we want more of that. Come see us at Sunnyside once renovations are complete in a couple of months. We can't wait to see you there!

Sunday, November 26, 2017

Turkey Day, and More

The theme of the week was thankful, and thankful we are indeed! It has been a fantastic five days. Since I normally work on Thursdays, I had the day off for Thanksgiving...which actually gave me five days off in a row. I was inordinately excited about this extra day off. I only work 2.5 days a week, but I cannot usually claim those 20 hours to be the most joyous of them all. So, the extra 8 hours of The Good Life this week was appreciated and enjoyed.

Vacation kicked off on Monday night with a happy hour with my mom/aunts/cousins. I put in my one full day on Tuesday, and after that, I met up with some cousins who were in town at my Aunt and Uncle's house. Wednesday was awesome...Gavin graduated his level at swim class and got his medal. He was obsessed with it and wore it all day. He even slept with it that night. On Wednesday evening, we met up with some good, old friends at the Railroad Park. The kids went crazy, we drank wine out of to-go coffee cups, and we were grateful to see our dear friend who had recently moved to Chicago.

My sweetest things.


Naked lightsaber fight.


A proud moment for G!




I guess I'm a little too lax about letting G2 climb on the playground structure. A random mom brought him over to me because she was so worried about how high he had climbed. Doh.

Graham loved his train ride with D

Thursday was the big day. We took it easy in the morning, and it was the nicest, happiest morning I could remember in months. We watched the parade and lounged around while making sweet potatoes and pumpkin pie. In the afternoon, we loaded up to go to my parents' house. There were nine cousins...all boys...who had a great time running around the backyard and later playing at the neighborhood park. It was a smaller Thanksgiving by our standards, and it was really nice.

Showing off his muscles, and still wearing the medal.

Graham driving "Mommy's truck" to the park.

Sumer pitching to G.

On Friday morning, we were up and at 'em and ready to decorate for Christmas! The tree was up and the mantle was decorated by 9am. It was the first time that Gavin really took an interest in the process, and it made it so much fun. In the afternoon, we took a trip up the hill for Harper's 5th birthday party in Prescott. This wasn't your ordinary birthday party...bounce house, face painting, a hot chocolate bar, pinatas, a full bar for the adults, incredible party favors, delicious food and an amazing cake. We were happy to catch up with friends, and the boys were entertained for hours. They zonked out as soon as we got in the car to head home and slept the entire two hours. It was a successful trip, and with the unusual heat we've had, we were happy to go where it was a few degrees cooler.




Doing Christmas through the eyes of a child is just the best.

It was so hot outside...who needs clothes to decorate?

Getting his face painted for the first time!

The whole crew

Batman!





Even G2 got a Mickey Mouse on his arm

Cake with cousins!


Soooo sweet.

Candy time!


We made Saturday an early morning to go to a make-up swim class since G will be missing it this week. From there, we played at the park for a bit before heading to the Scottsdale Quarter for the Santa Social. We were unintentionally super early, but it turns out that getting there 45 minutes early is really the only way it is worth it to get your free picture with Santa. I was fourth in line and waited all morning while the boys played at the Quarter. By the time Santa showed up, the line that snaked up and down the splash pad was completely full of people. After we took our photo and warmed up (on the 85-degree day) with a free hot chocolate, the line was overflowing. I don't know why anyone would wait in that line with small children for a free photo. The Santa was great, but the photo quality was poor. People were showing up with little girls in dresses with curled hair and I wanted to tell them to spend the money and go to Fashion Square for a legit Santa photo session. I was glad we did it, but I wouldn't have done it if we hadn't shown up when we did. Lesson learned for next year!




Playing on this new spinning chair at the Scottsdale Quarter

Gavin, a total sugar junkie, goes crazy for hot cocoa.

A very sub-par photo with Santa. Gavin's eyes! Haha. G2 wouldn't sit without crying, so we made it a Party of 5.

Back at home, painting ornaments. 


On Sunday, we met the family bright and early for a bike ride on the Green Belt with all five boys in tow. We brought Gavin's bike, and he gave it a good try, but for the most part, he rode in the bike trailer. The crowded Green Belt was not an easy place for him to ride as a beginner. We hardly get to practice with him because the dirt roads out here aren't optimal for beginner bike riders. Hopefully soon he'll get it down. Dylan had Graham in a seat on the back of his bike and also towed the trailer, which held Gavin and his bike. It was a heavy load, but he did great! Afterward, we had a chaotic and fun family breakfast on the patio at 5 and Diner. The weekend wrapped up with chores around the house. The dog ran away again, for like the 1000th time, except this time we really couldn't find him. I actually got in my car to look for him, which I've never done before. We all but declared him eaten by a coyote when he came prancing up the street and right back into the garage. Stinker. That dog will live forever, I'm pretty sure.

What a bunch!

Daddy the pack mule

These five boys! 

He drew a "Christmas ornament" on his hat at 5 and Diner.

Gavin is really becoming quite the artist, in addition to a master Lego builder.

He was so proud of this treasure map that he drew!

It was a completely fantastic five days, and I wish it didn't have to end. But alas, real life is upon us, and that is okay too. It's the most wonderful time of the year, and I plan to enjoy every bit of it.